Stop the Judgement - if no ones else knows what they want, we're all on the same page anyways!

This idea of no one having any idea what they are doing was so exciting for me! 

I had gone to college and been told by so many teachers, mentors, you have to have a plan. You need to know where you’re going to work when you graduate, you should know exactly what you want to be by the time it's junior year because you have to pick a major! All of society is constructed to put us in these roles. But the truth is that no one really knows what's coming tomorrow. No one knows what's going to happen next, we can try to plan but life isn't really planable. 

Even writing this I can feel limiting beliefs arising. We have to plan, yes, we should plan, but we cant be disappointed when life gives us a different outcome, because we aren't in control. 

It's actually really freeing when you think about it. If we all don't know, then don't we all have the freedom to write our own story? Without fitting into these constructs?